Mike. Posted June 19, 2007 Share Posted June 19, 2007 Yeah it's 20...so this topic is way past that mark. We should be like spontaneous combustion or something. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dillon Posted June 19, 2007 Share Posted June 19, 2007 Did you guys know that broken arms hurt really badly? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ellie_Penguin Posted June 19, 2007 Share Posted June 19, 2007 At least you didn't break your ribs, like my friend did. I wanna go to the pool, but all of my friends are busy and well my best friend is now my ex best friend :crying: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Xepha Posted June 19, 2007 Share Posted June 19, 2007 Hum, no I don't know Dillon... but I don't really wish to experiment it. ;) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dillon Posted June 19, 2007 Share Posted June 19, 2007 Ellie:Im sorry bout that. Angel:I dont want you to experiment with it either. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Xepha Posted June 20, 2007 Share Posted June 20, 2007 Yeah... oh well, sometimes suffering psychologically isn't better than physically. =/ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lutarist Jake Posted June 20, 2007 Share Posted June 20, 2007 But, you should care for your health too. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
antiaircraft Posted June 20, 2007 Share Posted June 20, 2007 It makes sense to care for both your mental and psychological health. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Xepha Posted June 20, 2007 Share Posted June 20, 2007 Indeed, it makes sens. I have a headhache now because my dad stressed me yesterday... -_- Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lutarist Jake Posted June 21, 2007 Share Posted June 21, 2007 Why did he stress you? or How did he stress you? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Xepha Posted June 21, 2007 Share Posted June 21, 2007 Oh, my relationship with my dad isn't excellent, let's say it like that. It would be very long to explain it in details... but I'll tell you the main ideas. I phoned my dad for fathers' day, as I posted previously in this board. He told me he was organising a surprise party for my sister because she is turning 18 next wednesday. The party is this friday. So he invited me to come visit them this weekend. I said I would think about it. They live kinda far from here... It takes 3 hours in car, or 4:30 in bus. I don't drive, so I would have to take the bus. Anyway, I said I would think about it. That was Sunday. Then, my mom came up with a very great idea. I could take the train, and he could pick me up somewhere nearer from where he lives (about 1:30 in car). So I emailed him and made this proposition. Yesterday night, he told me he couldn't loose 4 hours of his time to pick me up because he had planned to prepare the party Thursday night. He is cooking Rigatonni... I don't know if any of you have any idea who to cook Rigatonni, but I think it is one of the simplest thing to do. Tomatoes + Spices sauce... with cheese. Then you cook your pasta and add them in the sauce, put everything in the oven and it is ready not very long after. I must also mention that from the first proposition that was to go there for the party, and well... see my sister and my half sister that I have never meet, it changes A LOT. He now wanted me to go at a Saint-Jean Baptiste's show there. (Saint-Jean Baptiste is our National Day in Québec, by the way... so a big event you know! XD) and at a mishoui in a camping... blablabla. Basically, he wants to show me off to his friends. But, it has nothing in common with the weekend I had imagined. We have 2 visions of this weekend, and I told him over MSN I wasn't interested to argue with him and that if we can't agree, then we will have to report my visit and that's all. Anyway, I've been refusing all his invitation in the past 4 years, since I moved to my mom's house. What did stress me in all this? Well, just talking to him stress me. I'm always anticipating what he will say and I know it always end up in tears and madness. I know people can change, but he just demonstrated me he hadn't change. So now, I'm not really willing to go there. And it will be tough to tell him no thank you, you have been such a pain with me yesterday that now I think I shouldn't come for the best of my health! Any further questions? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Anime Posted June 21, 2007 Share Posted June 21, 2007 Ah... Nope. I don't think so. That's really a mess. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Xepha Posted June 21, 2007 Share Posted June 21, 2007 Yeah, it is always one when I have to deal with him. So my tactic is just to ignore him usually. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lutarist Jake Posted June 21, 2007 Share Posted June 21, 2007 Double nope. Really messy, I've got to agree. But maybe you can try to stop anticipating and just hope your dad changes. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Xepha Posted June 21, 2007 Share Posted June 21, 2007 Well, I tried... and it doesn't work. Actually, I had kinda fun with him over the phone on fathers' day, but he had shows his true him yesterday. So it erase all the good feeling I had about him during... 24hours. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lutarist Jake Posted June 21, 2007 Share Posted June 21, 2007 That's a pity. You should always have hope, though. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
antiaircraft Posted June 21, 2007 Share Posted June 21, 2007 It's really sad when relationships with your parents go awry - but I guess nobody's perfect. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dillon Posted June 21, 2007 Share Posted June 21, 2007 Im sorry Angel. That stinks. When your like older it might get better. Just have hope and faith. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Xepha Posted June 21, 2007 Share Posted June 21, 2007 Well... I'm almost 21 now, and I think it is worst than when I was 15-16! At least, I have a very very very good relationship with my mom. We are like best friends :D Ahaha, got a mail from my dad this morning, he is trying to make me feel guilty not to go now. And he is proposing me to take THE DOOM BUS! I thought I had been clear about the bus. I won't do a 4:30 ride to go there. Too boring and tireing! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dillon Posted June 21, 2007 Share Posted June 21, 2007 When older I mean like 30 when you settle down. We cant help when our parents are arses but it happens and thats life. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Xepha Posted June 21, 2007 Share Posted June 21, 2007 For some reasons, I can't imagine what my life will be in 10 years... XD I can't imagine the future, so I live one day at the time. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ellie_Penguin Posted June 21, 2007 Share Posted June 21, 2007 LOL dads can be VERY stressful, tell me about it. But now that I'm 19 I just ignore when I know we're gonna start arguing. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dillon Posted June 21, 2007 Share Posted June 21, 2007 Parents are so dumb they just dont understand what its like being a kid today. but when we grow up will be the same. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Xepha Posted June 21, 2007 Share Posted June 21, 2007 Yep, we will be the same... I think being parent isn't easy, anyway. A lot of responsabilities, and you have to take decisions and... awwwww Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dillon Posted June 21, 2007 Share Posted June 21, 2007 But you get to boss people around. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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