Hang Out and Post

[Spritzie]

Livvy, she never wanted me around, growing up. She always told me she hated me, etc. When she got married, she told me she didn't want me in her wedding because her wedding was only for people she liked. She started to tolerate me, when they separated. When they divorced, she actually liked having me around. In 2008, I moved to Denver, and lived with her for 3 months while working at her company.

 

Now that I'm back in our hometown, I don't see her or talk to her much. She lives 2 hours away and has her own things going on.

[-Ryan]

We are in page 2400. 24 is my fav number.

Really? Cool, and gratz. ^^

 

 

I dn't want siblings, i'd prefer to have my stuff left alone. o.o -clutches laptop-

 

 

 

Aw, i'm sorry about that Spritzie.

Wow @ the wedding thing. That's just not right. o.o

[Anisha]

Spritzie, Why did she hate you? You are nice, and friendly. Though I am glad it's all right now.

 

I love my brothers. They are the best siblings, eva. ^_^

 

EDIT: Thanks Ryan. ^_^

[livvy]

Ohh. :( Now that is very sad, Spritzie. Not that you don't talk to her, but that she never wanted you. I think if you have to live with someone, you should at least try to like them. How can you so hate someone who grew up with the same parents and same home?

[Spritzie]

She was always more than a hand full for my parents. (She's roughly 3 years older.) She was fine with me, when I was a baby, but once she went to school and was around kids her own age, she wanted nothing to do with me. She never wanted me around. She never wanted me anywhere near her friends. (So it drove her crazy that her friends really liked me.) That's just how she was.

 

My sister and I are like day and night. Our personalities are nothing alike.

[CAV of Gang Green]

That's really sad. Older siblings always say stuff like that (I know so because I am one), but we usually never mean it. What your sister did was just plain out wrong.

[-Ryan]

You're welcome, Anisha. :yes:

 

 

You are nice, and friendly. Though I am glad it's all right now.

^This :yes:

 

 

Hm, 7 words... o.o

[Spritzie]

She got so mad when I'd do something she did. (Like buying a CD she bought.) Etc. I think the worst of it, was regardless of how she ever treated me, I still looked up to her. That's probably why I copied her a bit, and wanted to spend time with her. I wanted to have things in common with her, and I guess, get her approval.

[Anisha]

My elder brother is kinda nice, he is normal. And I never bother him, neither does he. I don't like his friends. They are creeps.

[livvy]

Mum's here; gotta fly! She doesn't trust internet people. I'll still be online, but no posting. =\

 

*huggles Spritzie* Kinda felt like you needed it.

[Spritzie]

My sister and I do fine now, we just have stuff going on now. She lives 2 hours away. Her company is close to going out of business. She has a boyfriend. I'm here. I'm working a weird schedule. I'm married. Etc.

 

When I lived near her, and worked with her, we did stuff a lot more. We went out to dinner, hung out together. In 2008, her and I spent a weekend in Las Vegas. If I could have afforded it, we would have gone to Disney World together.

 

Thank you Livvy. :)

[livvy]

^_^

 

How are they creeps, Ani?

 

(Mum's making dinner, so I'm sneaking a few more posts in.)

[Anisha]

Spritzie, I like how you made it in 2008. I think you should call her sometimes, you know, talk to her, tell her to introduce her boyfriend to you.

 

How are they creeps, Ani?

My brother is 20. And so are his friends, of course. They think I am a kid. <_< Bleh, they hang out all night watching horror movies, listen to heavy metal songs, and ... what else? Act gothic.

[livvy]

Oho, they're in a gothic stage? Fun for you. :P

 

To be fair, you kind of are a kid to them. 20 is when everyone younger than you becomes a child. Then you get a little older and suddenly you realize you're not really "all growed up" yet.

[Spritzie]

Spritzie, I like how you made it in 2008. I think you should call her sometimes, you know, talk to her, tell her to introduce her boyfriend to you.

 

I've met her boyfriend. I worked with him. :laughingsmiley: He used to work at the company her and I did. (But he's quit since then.) My husband and I actually spent my birthday up there last year. We went to dinner with my sister, then went to her apartment and played Wii with her and her boyfriend.

 

To be fair, you kind of are a kid to them. 20 is when everyone younger than you becomes a child. Then you get a little older and suddenly you realize you're not really "all growed up" yet.

 

It's always like that with siblings. My sister isn't quite 3 years older, and she always looked at me that way. So did most of her friends.

 

Though I'm 25, I don't consider 15 being a kid. (Though I tease my husband about being a baby, because he's 22.) To me though, it's more about being mature than age.

[livvy]

Good point, Spritzie. I'd much rather talk to a mature 14-year-old than a childish 18-year old. (I'm 17.6-ish right now.)

[Spritzie]

I've always been the same way, but I matured earlier. Since my sister would have nothing to do with me, and she wouldn't allow her friends to have anything to do with me, I didn't hang around with anyone my sister's age. Then outside of school, in church as such, there was no one my age. So I usually hung around adults. So I learned to fit into that group early.

[livvy]

Back! :D But it seems everything's quieted down now.

 

I've always been pretty mature for my age, though I do have my immature moments. I've rather enjoyed being the "mature one"; people tend to trust me for it. :)

[Spritzie]

I've been having to do work. :mellow: Some of the drives weren't responding, so I had to go see what was wrong. But all seems to be working now.

 

It's been the same with me.

[IrishLiz]

I've always been the same way, but I matured earlier. Since my sister would have nothing to do with me, and she wouldn't allow her friends to have anything to do with me, I didn't hang around with anyone my sister's age. Then outside of school, in church as such, there was no one my age. So I usually hung around adults. So I learned to fit into that group early.

 

I think I have some of that from being an only child. I don't have any siblings, and my cousins are either much older or much younger than me. I've been around adults a lot and gotten along well with them, even at church too.

[livvy]

And yet you're the only one who's not fallen silent while I was eating dinner. =P

 

My cousins and I came as stepping stones. Rebecca is 27, Debbie is 22, I'm 17, and Sarah is 12. All born five years apart, so I can't forget their ages. I've always been closer to Sarah, because she looked up to me when she was younger. And I'm closer to Rebecca than I am to Debbie because I get to see her more. But the five year difference seems to be a good age difference. :yes:

[Spritzie]

I think I have some of that from being an only child. I don't have any siblings, and my cousins are either much older or much younger than me. I've been around adults a lot and gotten along well with them, even at church too.

 

With my cousins, 2 were older. One 3 years older, the other probably 5 years older. Then my other 4 are all younger. The oldest of those, is 4 years younger. The next one is probably 5 years younger. Next one, 7 years younger. And the last, probably 8 years younger.

 

And yet you're the only one who's not fallen silent. =P

 

I didn't fall silent? Hmmm. :laughingsmiley:

[livvy]

Well I mean, CAV and Ani and Ryan all just disappeared. You were at least still here.

[Spritzie]

I wondered why it was so peaceful... :whistle:

 

Yep I am. For just under 2 more hours. Then I get to go home. Today is my last 12 hr of the week. Except I have 4 12s next week, since I'm covering a shift on Saturday.

[livvy]

So are you not going to be with us tomorrow, since you don't have to entertain yourself for 8 hours?