caleew Posted April 25, 2014 Share Posted April 25, 2014 So about a month ago my best mate went through a terrible break up etc, and I've been the only darn one consoling her and looking after her. She was meant to come to mine for the weekend and now she can't come till tomorrow at some point. Why do I get the feeling that she's got a better offer? I'm so peed right now.. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hert123 Posted April 25, 2014 Share Posted April 25, 2014 I'm sorry for you Caleew. Maybe you should tell her how you feel and see how she reacts? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ruto Posted April 25, 2014 Share Posted April 25, 2014 I'm sorry, but it sounds like you're automatically assuming the worst of your friend just because she can't come until later. I can understand being disappointed because of plans changing, but you can't really be angry at her for that. quisquose 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
AJ11 Posted April 25, 2014 Share Posted April 25, 2014 sounds like you have been a good friend and you should be proud of that ... some people are not as good at being good friends, sadly its a fact, they are better at taking than giving It might be a good thing to keep in mind that your friend isnt perfect and that that can be ok, she is what she is perhaps It might be better for you if you can widen your circle of friends so that you can offer your friendship to others and also you can maybe become friends with someone who is more giving, as well as keeping this friend who is lucky to have you. everyone is different and some are a little less giving and more selfish, its possible to be friends with someone like that as long as you recognize that she is what she is. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
caleew Posted April 28, 2014 Author Share Posted April 28, 2014 Thanks guys :) Everything's all ok now :) I'm sorry, but it sounds like you're automatically assuming the worst of your friend just because she can't come until later. I can understand being disappointed because of plans changing, but you can't really be angry at her for that. I did assume the worst of her, because since the break up she's become very selfish - I understand how hard break ups can be, but she's acting like a brat :/ I still don't 100% know what happened, I just hope she was just too tired from work :/ I'm sorry for you Caleew. Maybe you should tell her how you feel and see how she reacts? I explained I wasn't impressed, and she did apologise for it all, which means an awful lot to me :) sounds like you have been a good friend and you should be proud of that ... some people are not as good at being good friends, sadly its a fact, they are better at taking than giving It might be a good thing to keep in mind that your friend isnt perfect and that that can be ok, she is what she is perhaps It might be better for you if you can widen your circle of friends so that you can offer your friendship to others and also you can maybe become friends with someone who is more giving, as well as keeping this friend who is lucky to have you. everyone is different and some are a little less giving and more selfish, its possible to be friends with someone like that as long as you recognize that she is what she is. Thanks :) I think she's just adapting to being single again, and becoming herself again - I should give her more slack then I do x Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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