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I have the worst luck with guys. Just met an amazing guy but he's in the Navy and wants to go to Afganistan next year, or failing that change his job. He doesn't know if he'll be here next year or not. Has no other ties here either so if he goes that's pretty much the last time I'll ever see him.

 

We had our first date yesterday, he kissed me at the end of the date and I swear I've never felt like that before (and I'm not exactly new to the whole relationship thing)

 

Ugh, the guys that do wanna stick around turn out to be such jerks as well.

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Aww, I'm sorry. D: It's so hard finding someone who is completely awesome, and then doesn't want to stick around. Hopefully he won't be going anywhere though- he may be able to find a new job in the same location that he wants. -is hopeful-

Jedi hugs are available if you want them.

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I felt like that for so long - when I was in my twenties it seemed I dated every frog there ever was (hehe) and no prince in sight unless they were physically far away! :( I hope though that maybe his new job will keep him local, it may be that meeting and dating you inspires him to stick around, fingers crossed! It could change his mind, you know?

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Aww, I'm sorry. D: It's so hard finding someone who is completely awesome, and then doesn't want to stick around. Hopefully he won't be going anywhere though- he may be able to find a new job in the same location that he wants. -is hopeful-

Jedi hugs are available if you want them.

 

I'm hoping he does, he said he's not very close to his family so doesn't feel like he has a base anywhere, so may buy a house here (though admits it'd probably be rented out most of the time)

 

It's very early days so at least I can protect myself I guess, just fed up of disappointment after disappointment.

 

I felt like that for so long - when I was in my twenties it seemed I dated every frog there ever was (hehe) and no prince in sight unless they were physically far away! :( I hope though that maybe his new job will keep him local, it may be that meeting and dating you inspires him to stick around, fingers crossed! It could change his mind, you know?

 

I'm with you on the frog thing! I guess all I can do is see where his head is, take it slow and maybe he'll fall for me.

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I'm hoping he does, he said he's not very close to his family so doesn't feel like he has a base anywhere, so may buy a house here (though admits it'd probably be rented out most of the time)

 

It's very early days so at least I can protect myself I guess, just fed up of disappointment after disappointment.

 

 

 

I'm with you on the frog thing! I guess all I can do is see where his head is, take it slow and maybe he'll fall for me.

Well, I'm crossing my fingers for you! You seem like an awesome fellow, so if he has any sense he'll stay. :3

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Fingers crossed for you that it works out! Like you've said it's only early days so for now it's easier to protect yourself from getting really hurt if he does go. Hopefully though, he might stick around for you if he realizes you have something special!

 

I've not had the best luck with guys. In fact, possibly the worst lol but my boyfriend now I've been with for 4 years on/off in February. I just hope he's actually changed like he says he has.

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I'm hoping he does, he said he's not very close to his family so doesn't feel like he has a base anywhere, so may buy a house here (though admits it'd probably be rented out most of the time)

It's very early days so at least I can protect myself I guess, just fed up of disappointment after disappointment.

I'm with you on the frog thing! I guess all I can do is see where his head is, take it slow and maybe he'll fall for me.

I can imagine, I've been there myself - and although I only know you from here, I think he'd be a lucky guy if he did fall for you!

 

Fingers crossed for you that it works out! Like you've said it's only early days so for now it's easier to protect yourself from getting really hurt if he does go. Hopefully though, he might stick around for you if he realizes you have something special!

 

I've not had the best luck with guys. In fact, possibly the worst lol but my boyfriend now I've been with for 4 years on/off in February. I just hope he's actually changed like he says he has.

 

Aww, I feel for you - I don't know how long ago it happened but people are capable of changing with that aspect, I can tell you from personal experience.

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Well, I'm crossing my fingers for you! You seem like an awesome fellow, so if he has any sense he'll stay. :3

 

 

Fingers crossed for you that it works out! Like you've said it's only early days so for now it's easier to protect yourself from getting really hurt if he does go. Hopefully though, he might stick around for you if he realizes you have something special!

 

I've not had the best luck with guys. In fact, possibly the worst lol but my boyfriend now I've been with for 4 years on/off in February. I just hope he's actually changed like he says he has.

I can imagine, I've been there myself - and although I only know you from here, I think he'd be a lucky guy if he did fall for you!

 

 

Thanks for the lovely words girls! Alas I don't think it's meant to be :\ I suggested that I didn't think he was that interested in me and he told me it isn't that he isn't interested as he thinks I'm a lovely guy, just that he doesn't know what he wants atm and feels it'd be unfair of him to lead me on.

 

I guess he's just being nice letting me down gently.

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Thanks for the lovely words girls! Alas I don't think it's meant to be :\ I suggested that I didn't think he was that interested in me and he told me it isn't that he isn't interested as he thinks I'm a lovely guy, just that he doesn't know what he wants atm and feels it'd be unfair of him to lead me on.

 

I guess he's just being nice letting me down gently.

Oh no. :( I'm so sorry.

I guess it's nice of him to say so at the start, rather than letting you believe that there might be something in the future, but ugh, it's always such a punch in the gut. :(

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