My crush got married. To another woman.

[musicsquared]

Blahhh. So there's this guy, obviously. I thought he liked me? I guess I thought wrong.

The problem is, he got "married" to some girl on Facebook. D;

Through creeping, I saw their conversations. They call each other wifey and hubby.

I have no idea what to make of it.

Are they in like with each other?

Is it a joke?

Is it like the type of thing where really close couples put "married" instead of "in a relationship with"?

Should I be CONCERNED?

Que pasa conmigo?!

Questions, questions, questions.

Man, 9th grade is no joke.

 

xD

 

[Sammy15]

9th grade? People on facebook always put married when they are not actually married and I think it is very weird!

[CAV of Gang Green]

No need to worry, and here's why.

 

1. He's too young to be married

2. Facebook. Seriously. Trying to have an acual relationship on Facebook, Twitter, and Myspace (note that I have a myspace) is like trying to pass the poisonious greenhouse gases and land on the hot surface of Venus. It's impossible.

3. You shouldn't bother being with him if he's gonna turn on you this quickly for someone he hasn't even MET.

4. Again. Facebook...

[Viridian]

Indeed. Wait til yer both fully grown up and see if he's still married.

 

I got married in grade 8 :whistle: - That was never something serious either :P

[hrtbrk]

They're obviously joking, but they probably do like each other or at the very least, are very close friends. A lot of people do this. A few of my girlfriends are even 'married' to each other on Facebook. It's just for fun and means that they're really close and act like an old married couple - when they obviously aren't. :yes: And for the record, he can still like you :P

 

CAV, I missed the part where it says he hasn't met his 'wife' yet? They could be very good friends, from sports activities, church, family friends etc. Secondly, a lot of 'internet relationships' work - even long distance relationships for that matter. Definitely not impossible.

[Viridian]

Secondly, a lot of 'internet relationships' work - even long distance relationships for that matter. Definitely not impossible.

 

Correct. Me and my boyfriend have been together over 2 years and he lives all the way over in canada, while I live in europe :)

[Batman]

Correct. Me and my boyfriend have been together over 2 years and he lives all the way over in canada, while I live in europe :)

 

My boyfriend used to live in across the country from me. And we have been happily dating for i think 2.5 years maybe? haha.

[Divya Bean]

I dont like long distance relationships cuz I never see the guy. I am "married" to my bff, even though I have a bf. :D

[CAV of Gang Green]

Why does everyone love proving me wrong. But a proof for my case, I've tried it before on Myspace. With a girl in California. That's exactly across the country from me (Cali to NYC). And it epicly failed. I even tried another time with someone from Rome. Failed again.

 

Not to mention Facebook has some serious cheaters on there. Not that Twitter and Myspace don't have their problems. I shall list them.

 

Twitter: You have Twitter wh***s

Myspace: Too many Emo pictures

Facebook: People who believe they're married, but in reality the person doesn't give a crap about you.

 

I hope you enjoyed this wake up call.

 

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[flyingeevee]

It's not real ^_^

 

Shoot in reality, I met my fiance on facebook :P We were both "anime roleplayers" around that time in high school and he was also "married" to some girl that lived in Oregon when he lived in Missouri! Really didn't last long since he broke up with her and admitted he loved me...lot of facebook drama happened lolz.

 

In the end, we actually hooked up, me and him met and so did our parents and we been together for over 2 years even though it's still a long distance relationship...until he goes to the college I actually wanted to go next semester and me transferring there after I get my degree =D

 

Facebook status are just for fun and often lies...or even boring..even saw two of my old gal pals saying on facebook that they were married xD

 

This is why I quit all that Facebook/Myspace junk lolz. Never even bothered to join Twitter ever.

[hrtbrk]

Not to mention Facebook has some serious cheaters on there. Not that Twitter and Myspace don't have their problems.

I hope you enjoyed this wake up call.

No need to be so rude. :eh: Besides, no one ever said that internet or long distance relationships are all sunshine and rainbows. Most are aware of the ramifications of internet dating (such as lying & cheating) but just because you had a bad experience online, doesn't mean all experiences are going to be bad. :P

 

If anyone watches Charles Trippy on Youtube, he and Alli met on Myspace. They are together like two peas in a pod (which kinda creeps me out). lol

 

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Wow! A lot of serious long distance relationships here :D That's so interesting haha

[Viridian]

Yea indeed CAV. I've had bad experiences on the internet too, and I will not say that there are more good matches than bad matches.

 

But there certainly are possibilities on the internet. There seem to be two living proofs of that in this topic alone.

 

Perhaps you cannot handle long distance relationships because you do not get any physical love, or perhaps because you think the other is cheating (or the other IS actually cheating)... Well in that case it wouldn't be a good relationship anyway.

 

There are people who trust each other though, and base love on both physical and emotional levels. That are the internet relations that might work out :yes:

[flyingeevee]

*nods with Viridian* From what I've seen, more people think and rely mainly physical contact...I couldn't meet my Ivan until after one full year of just talking through facebook and msn. After our first real meeting, well I guess I fell more in love =3

 

Long distance relationships usually don't work because of lack of physical contact and some people for some reason just can't handle that. It can work between both parties if they really care for one another to make it work ^_^

[Spritzie]

I met my husband on myyearbook. He lived in Florida, I was in Colorado. We talked on the phone a ton. (over 300+ hrs in less than a month.) I went and met him and his family. He moved here, and we got married. We've been married for over 9 months now, and it's been amazing.

 

Not that I haven't had stupid experiences with stuff like that before though.

[tempdisplay]

I thought this was your crush at work actually got real life married to another woman. But since it's Facebook, obviously they feel something for each other BUT if you say he likes you, the girl obviously requested they put that married thing up so she could look good to her friends :yes:

[Hoptotheloo]

They are probably just good friends. And are probably joking around. I've been in marriages with some of my best friends on facebook.

 

And not all internet relationships end badly.. :/ I've had a few good ones (with people I'm still friends with) and some I don't talk to anymore, it just depends. I've only met two of them in real life though...

[CAV of Gang Green]

Yea indeed CAV. I've had bad experiences on the internet too, and I will not say that there are more good matches than bad matches.

 

I'm not saying this just from my experience. On myspace, I have 179 friends. Over half of them had a relationship, and have failed. And I was there to witness most of them.

[Spritzie]

I'm not saying this just from my experience. On myspace, I have 179 friends. Over half of them had a relationship, and have failed. And I was there to witness most of them.

 

I've seen that happen to many people. I watched it happened to my friends all the time. That's why I never got into it. With my husband... the idea was that he would move to Colorado... and we'd see how things went. And things were just right for us when we met and everything... so we went from there.

[Anime]

Just a notice: This topic is to dicuss musicsquared's topic (her crush and his relationship status). If you wish to talk about long distance and internet relationships, I suggest you make a new topic. Judging by the way things are going, I recommend the debate forum.

[CAV of Gang Green]

Ok, I seem to be breaking too many rules without noticing. I don't need to break another.

 

On Topic: Most likely, the "married status" is fake. He just doesn't want people trying to date him.

[nelle]

uh..

Where's musicsquared?

 

I didn't read into the post that it was long distance. It could be that she has a crush on the guy in her school (or wherever), looked on facebook and saw his status set to "married".

 

My take: don't worry about it... either they are serious "in like" or soon enough he/she will feel the burden of acting way too grown up with all the "wify-hubby" talk. :sick01: lol

 

Don't sweat grade 9... better guys come after graduation - less hormones ^_^

[Unstream]

Well think about it this way: less that 2% of relationships make it past high school.

[CAV of Gang Green]

Well think about it this way: less that 2% of relationships make it past high school.

 

This shows that there's nothing to worry about.

[Meagan]

A lot of teens do that, just as a joke/ for fun. I wouldn't think to much about it if I were you. By the way, does this guy even know you like him? Have you ever discussed having a relationship with him? If not, then maybe he does like this other girl... I'm glad I'm an adult and don't have to deal with feelings like this anymore ^_^

 

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[Mimii]

No need to worry, and here's why.

 

1. He's too young to be married

2. Facebook. Seriously. Trying to have an acual relationship on Facebook, Twitter, and Myspace (note that I have a myspace) is like trying to pass the poisonious greenhouse gases and land on the hot surface of Venus. It's impossible.

3. You shouldn't bother being with him if he's gonna turn on you this quickly for someone he hasn't even MET.

4. Again. Facebook...

 

LOL, you took the words right out of my mouth entirely!! I don't understand why people put relationships up that aren't real, it just doesn't make sense to me. -.- Oh well, to each his own I suppose??