Seliphra Posted September 29, 2010 Share Posted September 29, 2010 I am REALLY fed up with my best friend right now! She tells me she's going to hang out with me and then goes home because she's tired. Okay. Fine, that's not what gets me. Same day she say's 'well I have to make plans with you so we can spend the whole day together' cuz we hadn't hung out in a while so that means -by that logic- that she should make plans with me next but what does she do? Finds her first day off in almost a month and makes plans with EVERYBODY else -including mutual friends- and DISCLUDES me! So what happened to 'lets spend the whole day together soon!'?!?! SO I get shoved to a day she opens after she's working for a week to go see a movie but I already know she's going to say 'well I'm too tired now, so I'm going to go home and have a beer' like she does EVERY time this happens! I'm getting really fed up with how selfish she can be sometimes. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Divya Bean Posted September 29, 2010 Share Posted September 29, 2010 Oh my god! That sounds so mean! I would understand it if she really was going home, but actually hanging out with other people! Wow. Just wow. If I were you I was ignore her for a while. Give her the MAJOR silent treatment. Major silent treatment. Total ignoration. It works! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
-Ryan Posted September 30, 2010 Share Posted September 30, 2010 LOL @ Divya's solution. xD Sorry about that, perhaps you shouldn't be friends with someone who's always forgetting you? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Seliphra Posted September 30, 2010 Author Share Posted September 30, 2010 Yeah, except that that's on her day off so she plans a movie with one girl, to hang with another after and then she's going to a club with someone else, all three are mutual friends, two of whom I introduced her to. When she says she's going home she does, the problem I have there is she goes home because she'd quote:'rather have a beer' Well I HARDLY mind hanging out at her place, does she really have to ditch me after making plans with me for alcohol?! @Super Squirrel: She IS my best friend, and it's only been like this the last month or so, I mean I get I'm unemployed and don't have money and yes she HAS been busy the last month but honestly, she promised me her next day off and immediately makes plans with other people for that day. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Divya Bean Posted September 30, 2010 Share Posted September 30, 2010 Lol at the last sentence! She sounds like an alcoholic. :P But seriously, that is so rude. I dont wonder that you are RAWRing! :laughingsmiley: Well, if you wanted to return the "favor," you could always do the same thing to her... EDIT: Ooooohhhh I am so sorry! I hope that things improve soon!! :sad01_anim: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Seliphra Posted September 30, 2010 Author Share Posted September 30, 2010 No, she only has one beer and only when she's stressed -with the occasional exception And I'm a non-drinker so I can't really ditch her for booze. Also thanks, I've been looking for a job for two years now... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Divya Bean Posted September 30, 2010 Share Posted September 30, 2010 Ugh, now that is rude! She must be really stressed. *rolls eyes* That sounds horrible! :crying: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
-Ryan Posted September 30, 2010 Share Posted September 30, 2010 Ah, I understand, you feel ignored but don't want to end the friendship. Distracting yourself from issues with friends is what I like to do. Get a good book and you'll forget about it until you need to deal with it. -shrug- Or perhaps you could go straight to talking with -insert friend's name here- and explain how you feel? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
-Kai- Posted September 30, 2010 Share Posted September 30, 2010 Well that happened exactly to me... I just ignored the situation, and when that person notices that you are beeing different she will tell you what is happening, and you'll espose the situation, tell her that you're feeling a bit dissapointed and so.. she'll notice that you are her best friend and no one else is gonna replace you XD. lets hope for that to work, about your job I hope you get one soon! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Seliphra Posted September 30, 2010 Author Share Posted September 30, 2010 *sigh* Thanks, I feel a little better about it now. I think I just needed to rant a bit :yes: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RobertoLuongo Posted September 30, 2010 Share Posted September 30, 2010 Oh my god! That sounds so mean! I would understand it if she really was going home, but actually hanging out with other people! Wow. Just wow. If I were you I was ignore her for a while. Give her the MAJOR silent treatment. Major silent treatment. Total ignoration. It works! LOL I wouldn't try this, because well...I have in the past. Lets just say that me and my old friend don't even speak anymore. If you do this, you're going to have to rely on your friend starting a convo with you. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jumpingbeans Posted September 30, 2010 Share Posted September 30, 2010 *sigh* Thanks, I feel a little better about it now. I think I just needed to rant a bit :yes: She doesn't really sound like a good friend to me, if she promises you something and doesn't do it. And good luck on getting a job! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Recommended Posts
Join the conversation
You can post now and register later. If you have an account, sign in now to post with your account.