hero of time Posted February 20, 2009 Share Posted February 20, 2009 the girl i like is in my youth grupe. but i relly dont know what to do. :withstupid: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Batman Posted February 20, 2009 Share Posted February 20, 2009 Have you tried talking to her? If she doesn't know you exist then you know that your odds of anything developing are zero. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hero of time Posted February 20, 2009 Author Share Posted February 20, 2009 i have but never realy chated with her... i realy have trubal talking to her. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lesia9920 Posted February 20, 2009 Share Posted February 20, 2009 well have you noticed anything shes into that you are into as well~ just starting a conversation about things that you 2 like or have in common breaks most grounds and assures you wont be standing there twindling your thumbs :) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Unstream Posted February 20, 2009 Share Posted February 20, 2009 You want to get to know her before you ask her out. I mean, what if she turns out to be a real jerk? Plus, it's a whole lot easier once you know her. Just be yourself, because you can't fake a whole relationship. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hero of time Posted February 21, 2009 Author Share Posted February 21, 2009 ovesly, i will try to be her friend beforhand but i am scared to talk to her. and im afraid to scare her. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
M!! Posted February 21, 2009 Share Posted February 21, 2009 Why do you think you would scare her? You should try and just talk to her and befriend her. That way, you can learn some things about her and she can learn some things about you. Then, once you're more comfortable talking with her, you can reveal your crush :) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Unstream Posted February 21, 2009 Share Posted February 21, 2009 Just be sure not to come on too strong. And best to act casually, unless she hates casualness Oh, and don't try too hard, or don't look like you're trying too hard. I mean, you don't want to agree with everything she says all the time and really quickly and everything or else you might just wind up looking like an idiot. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
judykm Posted February 21, 2009 Share Posted February 21, 2009 hero, you can ask her what sort of things she likes to do, maybe find out if you both like the same things (like neopets!), and then if she seems curious or interested, tell her about the things you like to do. Youth group is already a common thing you both do. Is she in your town? In your school? ask her things about herself. Don't worry about scaring her, if you are being yourself and she isn't interested, then she wasn't who you thought she was anyway. My son told me that about a girl he thought he liked, who turned out not to be worthwhile to him to get to know. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dexxus Posted July 15, 2009 Share Posted July 15, 2009 the girl i like is in my youth grupe. but i relly dont know what to do.:withstupid: Hmmm.. looks like another tongue-tied guy needs help.. Well, "hero of time"...the best thing to do is to express it.. Don't hide your feelings.. We girls, are sometimes waiting for any move from a guy.. Better move now, to check whether that girl has feelings for you too..and this could avoid any regrets..in the near future.. Time is precious.. This topic has been edited by a member of staff (Stephanie*) because of a violation of the forum rules. Please do not bump an old topic that has been inactive for over 21 days. Please check your user inbox to see if you have been contacted regarding this incident, then review our rules. Per the reason above, this topic has been LOCKED. Please contact Stephanie* if you have any questions regarding this action. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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